Hey lady how are you doing? I must add that Marks posts were great but I do disagree with the fact that he thinks it wont hurt like hell. Seperation hurts. What will hurt more is you and your H are fused and you react far too much to him.
It hurts but when you get thru the hell and come out the other side it will feel much better. I promise! Everything you have gone thru will help you to be a better person in the end.
He says it isnt going to hurt,,, he is right it will hurt less when you stop letting your hubby take you down with him. But in the meantime when you are learning new ways of coping it will hurt. I am not encouraging you to wallow in the hurt , I am just more realistic and know that you are hurting alot.
Your old thread has been locked since yesterday... hope to see you back on here soon. God bless... ~Ali
