I suppose this is where I'd be waiting to hear 'keep up the good work buster. Kill the chit chat' and 'don't believe anything she says.' I have not been given separation or divorce papers like I previously mentioned. It's been about 9 days since I have heard anything about it .... Doesn't mean anything....still with OM. Just confused.... First time I caught them in bed all I heard was 'I want a divorce' ever since