For the Guy with Kids and a WW 8

[kat727]

Maybe a bit of both. I really think she did all of this let her work it out. In my case H doesn't have cable either, but you know he will spend the gas money to see skank 25 miles away a couple of times a week at least so the money is there...It is all HIS choice. Kids say he never has anything to do...his pat answer is put in a DVD. He doesn't get creative or anything and if I help, it has just built up resentment and made me an enabler in my own situation. I could see that happening in yours too.

Let her figure it out.

kat