I have found that for my own peace of mind I need to make sure that w knows exactly when I am available or not.

Assumptions about stuff in the past has led us here and I can no longer let them rule my life.

If w wants to talk or the kids need me then I want them to know I can be depended on. Its a definite in a world of moving sand that helps me keep focussed.

It might be right or not but it helps keep me sane. I dont generally go into a lot of detail about my movements when not with w and kids. Just enough that they know I am safe and ok.

Hope you are well and this helps


Kenny

Me:40
WAW, MLC?:39
Kids:S11,S9
T:25, M:14
ILYB:Apr 08
W moved out Aug 08
W:Does not Want to Try

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