Originally Posted By: Distressed67
It was just that when we discussed her plans a couple of weeks ago and her possibly going to my dad's I just assumed that she knew I would go down Friday night. I will need to be more clear in the future.


Sounds like this is a regular gig and as you said before you always leave on a Friday night. Wonder why she thought this time should be different? It's worth asking about if you are puzzled. I have a bad memory so I tend to check with someone if they act surprised about my plans, hoping I didn't promise something then forgot.

I feel like I have to remind myself daily about being a better communicator.
AO