As a matter of fact, I know people whom I have worked with who have been married several years and do you know what? They are only intimate once a month! They set a date for that. I have heard of others where it is only once a year.
We all know those type of people BUT they aren't all in Patti's situation where her H has left and come back again. Telling her how sorry he is and that he loves her but doesn't appear to want to put the work in. That is different to two people accepting that is the way their lives are. Patti wants more and deserves more. If her Hs words (IMO) were said in all honesty he would at least be prepared to work with her instead of giving her excuses all the time.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
