Thank you goldeylox for all of your great advice. This is a lot harder than I expected it to be. I think I have to let go of all of my expectations on how things are going to go so I don't keep getting disappointed like this.
M: 25, H: 29 T: 4 years M: 11 months Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 7/11/08 Found out about OW: 7/12/08 Seperated but living together