Help me deal with the fact that when H comes to pick up the kids they act like it's no big deal----like something they've done for years. And, if you can help me with that, help me understand why I still feel like I need to bend over backwards to make his visits on his schedule......urghhhhhh.........why do I have to be the one alone!!! (can you tell he has the kids tonight??)
You know I truly must be insane, after pulling all the weight around here for years, and knowing about OW............and I would still take him back.............
I hope my kids don't see this as ok---------although they seem to act like it. Maybe it's H's influence---and the way he can act like everything is just A.O.K.!!!!!!!! We just live in separate houses....................
These kids are caught in the middle. What you can do is handle this in a dignified way. Share with them your beliefs. Like with my kids, they know what the Bible says, what our beliefs are but they in no way are in agreement with what their dad did or is doing. They say if he wants to mess up his life, then it is his choice.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
