The co-dependancy and enmeshment. I realized this a while back. Puppy, you helped me see it. I've been working on it. I am just sharing my feelings.

I am who I am. But I know the things I must change for myself.

She is going to have to clean up her own messes. I can't do it for her. Not anymore. Not my place.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."