I think I'm actually getting comfortable with my detachment.
I just remembered that the day H's parents are coming...the day I tm'd H about taking kids out w/parents for dinner is our 15th wedding anniversary...or our 3rd Anti-versary.
I remember periodically, that it is approaching...but, I get so distracted with doing everything, that I forget.
The first anti-versary really upset me... the second anti-versary, last year, I called H at work and he offered up 'Happy Anniversary'...this year...I'm okay to just let the day pass.
15 years is 15 years...good and bad.
Oh well....H might think I'm up to something. I've been accused of that before...coincidental planning.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
