good! thats the spot to be in...you can take care of you. you want him in your life- you dont NEED him in your life. big difference.

i just got a funny card and a gift..he said sorry i didnt but was very eager to open it.

i made no big deal about him not getting anything...no guilt or weird looks.

so do only what works for you :0

Pisces
M 31 H 32
M 7 yrs
S 5/10
Beginning
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