Your #1 in my book, I always told W its us, then the kids, It had to be that way, in any relationship, Love for each other first, then love for the kids, everything else, friends, family, etc came after us.
Out GAL'ing tonight, last softball game, we lost, great group of guys and gals on my team, coach and his W announced that they are expecting their first, that was great, good couple. I'm the old guy on the team, playing with 20 and 30 year olds. We had fun this year, happy hour next Friday, will have to ask W if she wants to watch the kids, or I'l have to hire a baby sitter, because, I'll be there.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never