Seperated but living together...

[Kiki1011]

Just posted this on my other thread but I thought I would put it here to buecause I need all the advice I can get on this one....

I just got home from dinner at my mother's house and H was sitting on the couch. I said Hi and asked how his day was. He looked visibly distraught and just said fine. I asked if he was ok to which he replied no that he had talked to his dad today. (he works for his father and they had yet to talk about everything...his father and him also have a bad history because his father cheated on his mom for 7 years with his mom's SIL then turned around and blamed it on my H because my H was in the hospital at the time for 3 months (he was only 7yrs old) so his mom was never home) He didn't want to talk about the talk they had but he looked as if he could cry. I know how badly his dad affects him and it hurts me to see him like this.

I told him if he changed his mind and wanted to talk to just let me know, then I came in here into my bedroom and jumped on here. I know we are supposed to be seperated but I so just want to run out there and hug him and tell him I love him and I am here for him. This is killing me doing nothing! What should I do??? Please Help!