Hey Sweetie, haven't had a computer in a few days and it's nearly drove me nuts! How are you doing now? I was catching up on the stitch and had a question. When you were at Retrovaille, or in any of the sessions, do they tell you what to do when you have thoughts of the OM? Did they suggest being open about that when you are having your talks with your H? Or, is that just something that is suppose to gradually be overcome by us....the wife? I know it is not something that will magically disappear and will be a struggle, but I do believ it will finally fade. I was just curious if they had any advise about it.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!