I'm sorry you are going through this, and it is awful to be left at home alone without your W and kids. I'm sorry I am making you tear up. Keep sharing your feelings with us, so many understand you and are where you are at. I am only trying to give advice that I think will help you in saving your marriage and/or helping you leave with no regrets if that is what ends up happening.
I'm glad you will give her the retro stuff. Sooner rather than later I hope. Before she gets all settled in her place and "new life". Don't make it easy on her for leaving her family. Make a plan....like talking to her THIS WEEK OR WEEKEND.
She faces her demons already and is the reason she is not going to church anymore. I did the same thing.
