For the Guy with Kids and a WW 8

[kat727]

No one can save her but herself. I say the same about H. They have to face their pain and then they will have to face the pain that they have created in the people that love them .

I still love H so I understand. The key to helping me is that this is NOT my husband. He may be trapped in there but he isn't front and center. Until he chooses to face his personal demons and fight them off, nothing will change. I wish my love for him was enough, but he wanted more. Sounds like your wife too.

kat