I hands down agree with your first message. I am full intent on giving her the time to come to that conclusion on her own, and now that TD reminded me its is normal for them to pull back after getting close i feel much better.
I can not believe all the pressure I am getting from people to just file myself. they look at me like i am stupid when I say i will not and she just needs time, and these are people who have been very supportive. It is kind of isolating, I don't have her and others are just getting annoying to talk to.
I saw someone on here talking about massages. That is an interesting approach. I have never had one from a pro before and for some reason feel strange about that but it is intriguing.
I got a call from her last night to tell me she was home safe. That is a big change other times she has just texted.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current