Understanding decent men and decent women is difficult enough. Understanding the H or W in these situations is 100% impossible. I can only speak to my own situation, but the level of selfishness and selfcentereness is off the charts. It borders on absolute insanity. No reason can make a dent. I don't even try anymore. I am hoping the insanity will diminish with me being a bystander. An "in the dark" bystander I might add.
M: 52 W: 45 M: 21 yrs D: 20 S: 17 D: 15 OM Started 02/2008 Bomb: 5/1/2008 W Moved out: 6/10/2008