Understanding decent men and decent women is difficult enough. Understanding the H or W in these situations is 100% impossible. I can only speak to my own situation, but the level of selfishness and selfcentereness is off the charts. It borders on absolute insanity. No reason can make a dent. I don't even try anymore. I am hoping the insanity will diminish with me being a bystander. An "in the dark" bystander I might add.


M: 52
W: 45
M: 21 yrs
D: 20
S: 17
D: 15
OM Started 02/2008
Bomb: 5/1/2008
W Moved out: 6/10/2008