losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

Sandi, your insight as always is invaluable. She is from a broken home and several of her friends are already divorced...not none of them had kids and were for real issues...not to minimize ours but ours don't even compare.

In any case...it was pasing curiousity. Why read and not talk to me? The answer there is that she was afraid when she had no reason to be. I think more of the ACOA behaviours flowing through couple with traditional WAW.

So I told W tonight that we already had plans for Wednesday and I will let her know tomorrow am about her taking the kids a day early. I don't want her to as we had agreed to the schedule and quite frankly, she needs to feel what she's feeling.

Thoughts?

Chris