(((Karen))) sorry that H is being an ass, STILL. He is simply trying to make you the bad guy because its easier than looking at himself. Good that you don't buy into it. Don't let him try and make you feel less than, you bust your butt and are a GREAT mom. Don't pay any attention to the words of someone who is so obviously a victim of HUAS (Head Up the Ass Syndrome) it affects millions each year. It seems to affect WAS's most often, with OP coming in a close second.
((((Hugs for you)))))
karen, no truer word have been written to you.
If your H treated you this way even when you were married, there is absolutely no reason to be his friend.
The jerk belittles you and it's totally uncalled for. He's taking advantage of your niceness and he just needs to go.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."