Patience is a virtue.....

[Neilh23]

Good girl. Let me clarify something first tho...and not to sound harsh....its one month of CHANGE for every year of marriage...so for example....
in my sitch...even tho we've been separated just about 4 1/2 months now, i didn't start implementing the changes until the beginning of june..about 2 months after the sep....so if we go with that equation.....i'd expect my W and i to be back together by the beginning of december.

make sense? I hope/want it to be sooner, but that gives the changes enough time to become a permanent part of my nature.

and you've got the right idea tho....just keep plugging away.

it does suck being lonely tho...