Would you want to be his friend? ever? Would you ever want to get back with him? Even after everything?
These thoughts are stuck in my head and I just wonder if anyone thinks these things.
kat
Like acquaintance friendly, but I can't see us being best buds. I mean the way he treats me isn't very friendly at all. If he not only went back to who he was the first 16 years of our marriage, I guess I would have to consider it, but he would have to start treating me totally different, appreciate me some, & stop being nasty, drop the OW, etc.
I just don't see him changing so much. So I think maybe something I am not going to worry about as it is unlikely. And if he ever did come back wanting marriage or dating again, I guess I would think about it at that time. Most likely I may have a boyfriend or husband or something, and once I do that then it would be no definitely not. Not fair to the new person. Kind of those are my thoughts; what are you thinking? Karen
