They remember the bad and the good. If she were to leave tomorrow, or ask me to leave, what would be freshest in her mind? The old me, or the new me. I strive each day to make some kind of impression in her mind that will stay with her if it were to be the last thing she remembered about me.
Love it! Great way to look at the situation. When I got out of the Air Force and was looking for a civilian job the best advice I got was this: Make sure that the person responsible for hiring you always has something new and impressive in your application folder. Follow-up letter, article about you, article they might be interested in, something that pertains to their kids etc. Woman get that better than men. Thanks ndsmhelp you da bomb!
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.