Well I can only guess that he has a Cancer Moon sign or something, or Venus in Cancer, or its his 7th house cusp or somehing, for him to go so dramatically and bundle ALL his stuff into bin liners like that on the eclipse.
Theres another in 2 weeks time, so I'd take a breather between now and then, as you were both hit so dramatically by the solar eclipse, the softer lunar eclipse (linked to Neptune, so highlights problems with drink, drugs or delusions!!!) is on 16th August and may be a bit more "illuminating". Watch the 15th/16th for revelations or conversations to do with events around February 6th, the last eclipse.
I'm hoping my ex will finally say something revealing to me, but as he is super secretive, I doubt he will. Your H is a better communicator, so I am keeping my fingers crossed that something useful comes of it.
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread