I was going to say I think it is a big difference between guys and girls...but that isn't the case, not always.
If you have forgiven someone something, you don't bring it up ever again, it is not ammo in fights, or guilt stick to be used. It may not be forgotten but it sure as hell isn't in your tool box to be used anymore.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK