I understand. I am also in sales, and I have learned that. I have also learned that every no or rejection gets you closer to a yes or a sale.
Ok, so she's rejecting the marriage. I have tried to work the angle of forgetting the marriage. Husband and wife stuff. I told her this. I wanted to work on the relationship. On us. I had told her this after we met with the Pastor last year. Same day I gave her my ring. I told her to put the marriage, sex, husband wife stuff and put it in a box somewhere. In Jesus's box. I gave her my ring and told her to keep it. If we didn't make it, I didn't want it anymore. If I someday got it back, then I would know what that meant. Sat in church for this conversation. Last October. She got sick in November and here we are today.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."