Thanks OD and Ali for your responses!

I understand what you are saying Ali about trying to be the consistency in his life...that's why this is so hard...I want to be there for him...but I need to be prepared myself if this is the beginning of the end....It's hard for me to GAL if he's going to be so involved in my free time (evenings and weekends). That's why I feel the need to pull away somewhat...not completely...????

We are both Cancer's... I don't know what that means, but maybe you can give me some insight some time....no pressure...

One step at a time...huh?

BA

Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally