John,
Flirt with her as if you are trying to seduce her but DON'T take it further, let her make the move. Tease her if you can... I know that works. I know it may sound simplified but what can I say, these are the things that work for me...
K

Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009