The Wifey - Still working.

[Rob1231]

Hey KJo, You really set me up with a great opening here, gonna jump right in:

Right now I'm just scared I'm losing the most important person in the world to me and I feel paralyzed sometimes. I know what I need to do and I do it for a while and then I backslide.

You are exactly right - except you have the wrong person in mind! That important person, the one you need to find and hold onto, is YOU. That's where to begin! You've told us some terrific things about yourself, things you like to do that are fun, interesting, and exciting. Get out and do them - do them with energy and passion! Be the very best person you can be - that's how to attract and keep the other people you want in your life.

My husband is a score-keeper. He knows everything I've ever done wrong and he can tell you, too. I am on a very long and scary road right now.

Let him keep score if he thinks he has to right now. You know what that is worth? Not one d@mn cent. I guarantee BOTH of you made plenty of mistakes along the way. Who cares? It's not what you did in the past that is going to make any difference, it's what you do today, and what you're going to do tomorrow.