I'm sorry he suddenly left like that and then the way he is behaving, no wonder you are confused, he is putting you through the mill!! When you wrote..
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Being alone...is going to take some getting used to.
...my first thought was, uh..being alone is going to take alot for HIM to get used to! And he couldnt manage a weekend alone without calling you constantly!!!
I'm not sure about the pulling back/being not available - your H is clearly going through some kind of crisis, but still loves you deep down.. I read some other posters saying men in MLC with depression need consistency and reassurance. So if you can stand it, I would accept his contact when he deems to bestow contact upon you! But then, you know your sitch best and your limits.
Also.. your H took this decision and walked out on 1 August - the solar eclipse (he's not an Aquarian or Leo is he???), but it is said that decisions of this magnitude taken on an eclipse are never a good idea, as they seldom work out as expected. It is also the start of a new beginning though, and whatever happens next, I guess that this step is necessary, as hard as that is.
Thinking of you, this is a difficult time for you, especially as your kids have flown the nest recently, hugs, Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
