Of course you are not alone and Thank God we can be around in turns. That's the beauty of this site, isn't it? There is always someone around to lean on (virtually) (and there is always Jeff to lean on, Jeff you are a Prince!).
You sound better, moving, breathing... That's all you need to do for now... Love K
BTW, being "a martyr" for your mom is not healthy or fair (for you). Change that!
