On the bumpy road towards found...

[pisces9]

well- i asked the same questions and my anniversary was July 21st.

i asked him to get together for something casual like lunch or something- i didnt want him to feel too much romantic pressure...he ended up saying dinner would be good...i got him a funny card and just told him a joke in it and said he was a wonderful man...nothing mushy..i got him a tshirt..nothing fancy...he didnt get me anything and he later apologized saying he is confused...well we ended up having dinner- and had a great night- then he came over and we went in the hot tub and kissed for the first time in 3 months...

im not saying that to get your hope up or to brag- but im saying that a casual invite to lunch turned into this...i had no expectations either...so throw it out there very casually and see what he says...


does this help? what do you think?