Seperated but living together...

[Kiki1011]

I have no idea...well he met the OW about 8 weeks ago now, I don't know if that had a huge part in it. But, he has completely change over the last 6 weeks. He has been smoking like crazy, drinking a lot more, going out with his friends a lot more, picking fights whenever he can, etc. and even got a huge tattoo Saturday when he is not supposed to get tattoos because he has a blood disorder. I don't know where this change came from.

Everytime I ask him about things he has a different excuse of why he is doing this...first it was because he didn't want to end up like his father (cheated on his mom for 7 years with his mom's SIL) so he thought he should get out now, then it was because he thinks my mom is having an affair and I'll end up like her, then it was because he's just not happy being married and wants to be alone, then it was because of the fact that he can't trust me, yadda yadda yadda.

So, I am clueless on the matter and don't really know where or when things went wrong because I thought we were happy. Before this happend he was such a loving, kind, and very attentive person.