Is W in MLC

[peacetoday]

Y
I think your W is so confused
why would someone do something that Hurts so much? This I have wondered myself
If our S are running why does it hurt..the guilt
guilt is an emotion that says you have done something wrong
yet they either cant perceive it as guilt or their emotions are all disconnected
when I do something wrong..I feel guilt
that guilt teaches me tonot do it again
our S feel guilt and justify it somehow
like your W just did
you are doing well and she must be baffled at your kindness
They all say we should date but not sure if they really mean that
and my H also gave me a funny look when I said I wouldnt want to date anyone who would want me as still M
It goes against everthing they rationalized

IF someone wants out of a M
and even if they found a great person to date
wouldnt it makes sense to wait say 3-6 months post D just to make sure your picking someone good
who would want to attract a crazy person?
Oue Souses dont seem to see the logic in this very old rule
peace