I'm sure she's excellent, but sometimes personalities just don't mesh well. I think it's important to feel really comfortable with your lawyer (especially since you've allowed your h to manipulate you so much in the past). Don't give up until you feel you've got the right fit.

xo

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence