We are only a couple years apart in age, he is older. Pregnancy wasn't necessarily planned, but wasn't an accident. We first became pregnant on our honeymoon actually, but unfortunately lost the pregnancy at the 3rd month. I have some medical issues (cancer survivor) in which the doctor said we would most likely have to try fertility treatments in order to concieve again. We decided we didn't want to pressure ouselves so early in our marriage by going through fertility treatments to try to get pregnant so we made a deal that we would not try but also not prevent and let what ever happens happen. We just thought if it was meant to happen it would happen.

So, it happend by very slim chance and now all of a sudden my H wants out and even told me he regretted ever marrying me in the first place and that he has been thinking about leaving me since right after the wedding. I just know this is not him and that makes it hurt even more. Even his friends and family say he is not himself and they don't know what he is thinking.

Thanks,
Niki

Last edited by Kiki1011; 08/04/08 06:56 PM.
M: 25, H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 11 months
Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 7/11/08
Found out about OW: 7/12/08
Seperated but living together