Jeff, you're right about my mom. She will just have to be ok and understand that I can't live for her, I have to live for me. If I don't do that I won't be any good to either one of them.
I have checked into transportation services for her (which medicare would pay for) and she won't do it. I have even enlisted the help of my cousin's but she doesn't want them to pick her up either. She gets "outside of her comfort zone" and doesn't like it so she panics. AARRRGGGHHH!!!!
Amy - Thanks for the link! I'm going to have to check that out. Maybe I can find something near here. I live just outside of Atlanta but far enough into suburbia that most things here are very "soccer mom" oriented.
I would love to do yoga if I can find a way to afford it. I had to quit my gym which had yoga classes but I know our rec department used to offer yoga. I'll check further into it. I would take karate with my son but I'm WAY to out of shape for that right now and it's FAR too expensive. He would kick my sorry butt anyway. He's going to be testing for his black belt starting in September. I can't even hold his targets for him anymore because he knocks me across the room.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!