I feel guilty for feeling this way cause he put up with the closed sign being up for so long. I mean we had sex but I was hardly ever really present... ( he was being a scoundrel and my self esteem was lost ) so I have to make up for alot of lost time.
Ali, understand for me the closed sign was up for a long time before I turned into a scoundrel and then with me as a scoundrel the sign was never coming down. We both lost a lot of time.
Originally Posted By: ~Ali
Do you really feel like sex is of no interest or does she need for you to make up for lost time too?
I feel sex is just of no interest to her and I'm making up the lost time part, which for her is me doing chores and more stuff around the house. I don't know which it is.
Also instead of enjoying sex together while we were in our prime, now she is in menopause. I think she just had her last period a couple months ago. Add that to her 1001 excuses not to have sex. Talk about lost time... we will never be young again.
It's so simple to me... ML with the one that you love. Like DQ says, she does not "get it", she just doesn't. ~5
