Hi Buster. If you can send a Notify request to the site monitor and ask her to remove all your old threads I would strongly ask/reccomend it.
1. My wife found this site and read over my posts yesterday. She was hurt pretty badly. 2. I won't be posting anymore about my own relationship here, and I may not return at all. 3. Your threads are not deletable, but the administrator can remove them, and right now you/we are a sitting duck for your wife and other people's spouses or their OP to find this site and read them. You told me yourself she sent you here at one point. 4. If you want to protect your marriage I would reccomend you have all your threads deleted (it may help me show some sympathy too, I am not sure). If your wife found them it would not help your situation in the slightest.
Sorry Buster, I can't email you any links because I dont have your email address, and the forum rules will not allow posting of them here.
I for one would have worded my posts quite differently had I put some thought into how much hurt would come of it. My posts were careless and hurtful in many cases, and I am asking for them to be removed. your old threads would likley do best to remove as well in my opinion.
This is not a confidential counselling session, oftentimes we all forget this is a public forum and despite how hurt and lost we may all be when we come here, we run the risk of hurting those whom we claim to care about when we post here on impulse. I for one will be gauging anything I write with the knowledge of who I am affecting when i write from now on.
