anyways like i said earlier, wife called....didn't answer....then i get a message tonight "are you awake ?" no answer to her again. MarkF I hope you come back....we can work around the whole advertising thing.....just show up here and we'll discuss it.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
wife texts 'good morning' as soon as she wakes up...no replies. I can do this I feel. 1 call and 3 texts. Dead silence. Her good friend just informed me that she wants the old gang back together, and she used to aspire to be my wife, but now you couldn't pay her any amount of money to be in her shoes. Said wife lost her head, had it good and through everything away. So the friend is going to have a talk with her about everything. None of my doing either
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
Good job not responding. Look for her to use your child as the pretense next, to try to get a response out of you. If she does, DO reply, but keep it to parenting biz, and keep it brief.
Hi Buster. If you can send a Notify request to the site monitor and ask her to remove all your old threads I would strongly ask/reccomend it.
1. My wife found this site and read over my posts yesterday. She was hurt pretty badly. 2. I won't be posting anymore about my own relationship here, and I may not return at all. 3. Your threads are not deletable, but the administrator can remove them, and right now you/we are a sitting duck for your wife and other people's spouses or their OP to find this site and read them. You told me yourself she sent you here at one point. 4. If you want to protect your marriage I would reccomend you have all your threads deleted (it may help me show some sympathy too, I am not sure). If your wife found them it would not help your situation in the slightest.
Sorry Buster, I can't email you any links because I dont have your email address, and the forum rules will not allow posting of them here.
I for one would have worded my posts quite differently had I put some thought into how much hurt would come of it. My posts were careless and hurtful in many cases, and I am asking for them to be removed. your old threads would likley do best to remove as well in my opinion.
This is not a confidential counselling session, oftentimes we all forget this is a public forum and despite how hurt and lost we may all be when we come here, we run the risk of hurting those whom we claim to care about when we post here on impulse. I for one will be gauging anything I write with the knowledge of who I am affecting when i write from now on.
