I thought I would post under here for some advice as well. To sum it up...H asked for D 17 days ago and I am currently about 10 weeks pregnant with our first child. I thought we were completely happy so it has completely shocked me. Then I found out about OW. He went to stay the night with her (she lives an hour away) just 24 hours after he asked me for D. When he came back he asked me to get out of the house by the weekend and if I wasn't he would pack my stuff for me. Well I knew this was an empty threat and knew he couldn't kick me out of my own house so I refused. We are now seperated but still living together. We have seperate rooms and for the most part don't see much of each other.
I am having a hard time knowing how to deal with all of this. How am I supposed to act towards him? Should I be friendly? Should I ignore him? I have been trying to follow the steps in DR and have noticed some small baby steps in H. For example, he has asked me about my day the last couple of days and even offered to get me some dinner last night if I was going to be home. I just need help on knowing how to act around him right now, especially with the baby topic. (he knows about the pregnancy, we found out I was a couple weeks before he asked for D)
Thanks! Niki
P.S. - H took off his wedding ring the same day he asked for D, Should I not wear my rings as well?
Last edited by Kiki1011; 08/04/0806:17 PM.
M: 25, H: 29 T: 4 years M: 11 months Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 7/11/08 Found out about OW: 7/12/08 Seperated but living together
