Hi Sara, You have nailed it exactly. He needs to get his life straightened out before anything else. Look at it this way - imagine that you didn't have your history with him, but he was just a guy you knew who was recently divorced as a result of his A's. Would you want to have anything to do with that guy? I don't think so!

But suppose that same guy took several months to really look at his life, seriously deal with his own problems, and become a happy and strong person on his own. Then, who knows, that guy... might even resemble the guy you loved and married in the first place? I agree, never say "Never" - but certainly do say "Not so fast, buster!"


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