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Are you kidding me Jill?? boy if i were D i'd say Do Not Report On my Golf! lol duhhh!

My typing job? maybe it was on one of the 400 mails lol

Just my home owners association, i am typing up some correspondence for them. Typing some little articles for the monthly newsletter, dosnt make much but its something.They provide me w/ paper, print ink etc, I am doing more for if a time comes when they are hiring in the office I can get in t here. They are in charge of about 4 local associations and have a nice lil office not far, Would be something anyway!
They are not hiring now, budget cuts hence , asking the volunteers and my dad suggested I could type, so they are paying me.


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They blew it and we both know that it does catch up with them eventually!!


Bethie,

That is so very true....

Take Care,


Do you think so? I dont want it to appear that I am sitting in wait for something bad to happen to Ex, I am not and most times dont think much of his life, but his life seems peachy, and yes he did have that talk w/ Ry but I dont know I do wonder if that was again his lil victim mouth, so Ry would not be upset at his dad for something. To me his life seems just fine. Thats ok I need to concentrate on my life, but the lil devil part of me would love to see him fall on his smug arse!

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They blew it and we both know that it does catch up with them eventually!!


Bethie,

That is so very true....

Take Care,


Do you think so? I dont want it to appear that I am sitting in wait for something bad to happen to Ex, I am not and most times dont think much of his life, but his life seems peachy, and yes he did have that talk w/ Ry but I dont know I do wonder if that was again his lil victim mouth, so Ry would not be upset at his dad for something. To me his life seems just fine. Thats ok I need to concentrate on my life, but the lil devil part of me would love to see him fall on his smug arse!


Karen,

I TOTALLY believe karma will come back to bite them in the a$$....

I frankly believe my exW is sitting there in her boxy '70's Brady Bunch house thinking..... WTF just happened? IT IS MY TURN TO BE HAPPY! She is living with him in the house WE BOUGHT.... He has pretty much remodeled it... They two cute little dogs.... She put cute little f$c%ing decorations on the front porch.... AND he is discussing on his blog how happy he is and someday having CHILDREN with HER!

This just proves her little insecurity true..... She simply was NOT good enough to have my child! Of course, she is doing it all in private.... She needs to keep up the allusion she is "happy" with her "new" life...

I am CERTAIN many of our exs are stewing away... POed that they are not as happy as they thought they would be...

I say...

Let them eat cake!

NMD

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Oh a lil dissapointing news, B's D who was all set to marry up in Pismo Beach this fall, Oct. 15th, has officially canceled her wedding.
She has been having probs w/ her fiance and his drinking and imaturity, he is 24 but not everyone is grown at 24, he!! a lot are not grown at 44 or 54 either.

Sad really she was upset but is making the right decision, better to get out of a bad R then a bad marriage, D is not fun!
They had just bought a house together and actually are still together just not getting married till he can prove he is ready.
My mom dosnt get the concept of her staying w/ him, but I do.

Soooo B is out a bit of money for no refund wedding gowns and deposits on halls but he dosnt seem to mind, He is glad his D is doing the right thing.

We changed our little getaway we were taking up there to early Oct. so I am looking forward to that.
Feel bad for her though,It must hurt.


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Oh K,

I feel bad for her as well, but she's certainly a smart little cookie! If she means anything to him and he wants to marry her, he'll make an effort to grow up. If not, what did she really lose?

I totally agree with NMD about Karma. Nobody gets through this life without regrets, and unless we are willing to make amends it all catches up with us sooner or later!

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Soooo B is out a bit of money for no refund wedding gowns and deposits on halls but he dosnt seem to mind, He is glad his D is doing the right thing.
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Hiya Chickie Marie!

Sigh, B is such a keeper.

She did the smart thing his D. So much courage to do that and go with your heart and gut.

prayers for them

Glad you are over feeling a little bit guilty over the Alimony. These X's . Well they are the ones that really lose out, even when they are on the beach tanning.

Have a great day lovey.


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Glad you are over feeling a little bit guilty over the Alimony. These X's . Well they are the ones that really lose out, even when they are on the beach tanning.


I do not know of any resort, beach or drink that will get you over the regret of bailing on your M........

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you guys get alimony and child support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





someday maybe I will live high on the hog too


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good for her for knowing it wasn't the right time and how wonderful that B didn't make her feel guilty over it

i wonder sometimes if I might not have been so ready to get married if I knew my parents wouldn't hhave been upset about being out money

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you guys get alimony and child support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





someday maybe I will live high on the hog too


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good for her for knowing it wasn't the right time and how wonderful that B didn't make her feel guilty over it

i wonder sometimes if I might not have been so ready to get married if I knew my parents wouldn't hhave been upset about being out money

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arghhhhhhhh
Ok I shall read your posts when i get back

I am just fumin!! I go to the bank today I had to close my debit card and get reissued anew as a co. I bought a small item from last month sold my cc# to a company that has taken out $15.00 amonth out of my checking!! I found it the other day, so far only been credited one of the $15.00 but BBB to the rescue, My S says I must have the BBB on my speed dial! The are awesome!

While at the bank, I get my moms check I pay her my mort. as officialy she owns my home now- I had a handful, so take the money order,and throw it in my purse, get home sure enough bank called they issued it for $100 over, DURRR. they want me to go back in no way! I went today because i have no time the rest of the week its 102 degrees and i have no gas! told her to take the extra out of my acct.

Good Job I looked at my acct on line tho, I had put my last unemployment check in my savings last week, I see my savings is down over $100,,,welllll it seems the govt check BOUNCED! WTH??

I swear this stuff always happens to me! I must have bad karma from being an OW in another life! lol

So got lots of phone calls to make. The EDD changed their number, guess what? it dosnt work ! they are overflowing w/ calls.

CALGONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN take me awayyyyyyyyy


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