She is the one that needs to change, and frankly I don't think I want to hang around for it anymore. Eight months of BS. BS that should improve.
The core of the matter.
Yes, in 8 months you should have seen some changes... IF you had made some as well.
You and your wife are still and always will be in a vicious cycle if both of you keep interacting the same old way. Keep pushing the same buttons and keep reacting to the other one pushing those same old buttons.
Yes she needs to change, absolutely, you need to show her how, not tell her. Phil talks alot, Phil needs to do.
You got the one you wanted giving you advice, are you listening to it? Are you livng it? Have you stopped saying "I love you?" yet?
You think I am this expert, that's fine. Are you doing anything I have reccomended?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
