In a Holding Pattern Waiting for Clearance

[smartcookie]

No were not in denial, we know if we are fat, we just do not ask a question we do not want our W to answer. They just might tell us.

okay, now I'm wondering... Do men need reassurance ?

......, sorry just picturing a model with a plumbing snake in her hand...........ok moving on here.

I did a lot of work for coca-cola, I have that all american girl (now woman) look, long layered blonde hair and green eyes. I never modeled with a plumbersnake. LOL

If we get hurt it is more than likely because we were doing something stupid. We are laughing at the stupid act and not the fact that we got hurt. Also it is our way of asking "are you ok" if the hurt person laughs we know they are fine if they don't we know they are really hurt. Its weird but it is our way of showing concern and the hurt person can get up deal with the pain without feeling self consious or show how much it hurt.

you know what........that makes sense now. I get it. So, you guys laugh, at first, if the other guy doesn't then you know to call an ambulance ? lol

My W is so confident and independent but when it comes to asking for what she wants she does not. I have gotten much better at knowing the question she is really asking when she says something to me.

It's great that you've gotten better at knowing. I still wonder why she doesn't ask ?

I also learnd this a long time ago. Yesterday my W was getting a can out of the cabinets and dropped it on her foot. She stood up and hit me in the arm. I said " I'm sorry its my fault I was talking to you." She said "yea it is." It was a nice exchange. Plus it show she is getting more comfortable with me.

I never went quite that far, I guess I should. LOL Did you two used to tease & joke a lot ?

It is frightning and if we ever do get our M back together I will tell her everyday and she will never have to wonder about my love for her again.

Cool, another one comes over to the right side.