You are right BobbiJo, I have not closed the door on him forever. But he would have to get help for himself for whatever reason he had for cheating on me in the first place. I have to keep in mind that he first cheated in August 2006 with a prostitute and then again recently with the ongoing OW. So he has issues that need to be resolved. Maybe once he has worked through those issues in his life and can understand the reasons why he had the desire to cheat, then I can give him another chance. It might be many years from now or it might not ever happen. Even though I question if I moved too quickly, I still know that I did what I needed to do for myself. If Illinois had legal seperation laws then maybe things would have been different right now. Who knows?
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
