BBJ, you can hijack anytime...Yes I remember the heart racing incident....now i have to figure out how to get back there. That happened a few weeks after I moved out. We never stopped loving / wanting them in our lives....they were ready to end it all....i guess it takes a little while to get them all the way back. I have to admit that this is the hardest thing I have done so far in my life. Maybe you should try my two weeks no pressure (etc.) strategy. I will let you know how it goes.
