Originally Posted By: whatdidido
Give her information about Retrouvaille. Put it on HER. It is not YOUR rejection....let HER reject working on the marriage plain as day if that is what she will do. BUT, you need to give her the information and let her know what it could do for your family. Plan ahead. Think about the discussion, making sure it does not get to anger and fighting match. It should be matter of fact: Here is some information on Retrouvaille. It saves marriages in worst places than ours. I think it could help our family. I want to do this. Will you do this for our family? If she says "no", then you say you will leave the information, and say to give it more thought. Let her know that it was important to you to give her the information because you need to know that she is making an informed decision about breaking the family. That you want her to know that there are other choices she can make. Let her know that you know you can't make her do anything, but you can at least know that you gave her the option. And, make sure your kids are elsewhere. Please do this. You will never regret it, h4h.


Great, GREAT positioning, WDID. H4H, here is your script!

Puppy