W wanted to talk this morning, says she doesn't want me to hate her, said that I didn't do this or I didn't do that that she tried to make our marriage work, etc. She said she is a good person and I should not hate her, I told her she makes me sick and I hate what she has done to me, lying to me and cheating on me.

When I sign D paperwork, I'm going to give my wedding ring back to her with a note that says, you can justify what you did to me anyway you want but you know I loved you with all my heart and you know that I would have done anything for you and our marriage. It was your decision to do what you have done.

W called me at work, she was still upset and said she didn't like that I had full physical custody of the children, did some quick research and called her back told her I will only agree to full physical custody of the children. I'm worried that 2 years down the road when W wakes up or needs money she'll want child support payments because I make more money and we share physical custody of the children. I told her she was a good mother and I would never stand in her way when it comes to being with the children and I won't - it is good that she wants to be with them.

The physical custody thing, W said she feels like she is abandoning the children, what would people think

I agree with her wanting to be with the kids but do not agree with her wanting to keep up appearances.

Had to bite my tongue, told her she is a good mother, said I would not stand in her way anytime she wanted to be with the children etc. etc. she thanked me for the compliment and said she would call L and agree to giving me full custody of the children.

M45
W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never