I agree with both of you! I found that a set schedule is good, the routine of it, allows you to plan stuff, etc. But some flexibility is good too. The other day D8 was sick with a stomach thing on H's day, Saturday, and I told him he could switch days to the next day if he wanted so she might feel better that day as he likes to take them places. He decided to stay with her on her sick day, but switching would have been fine too. Anyway, that's my take on it....Karen
